BITVONLINE.COM- Losing someone significant in life is a heavy experience. It feels like standing in the middle of a storm without an umbrella, making the world seem devoid of color. Yet, loss is not the end. In fact, it can mark the beginning of a journey to discover the best version of oneself.
According to psychologists, accepting reality is the first step toward healing. “Accepting the reality of loss doesn’t mean giving up but making peace with the pain. It’s a way to free yourself from the emotional burden that holds you back,” explained Dr. Indra Wahyudi, a clinical psychologist based in Medan.
Deep feelings of loss often lead people to question, “What went wrong?” But beyond focusing on the wounds, this is an opportunity to uncover lessons. Loss can serve as a mirror reflecting one’s strengths and weaknesses.
Many people get stuck in denial or hold onto empty hopes that what’s lost will return. However, as personal development experts emphasize, focusing on controllable aspects of life is key. “When we accept reality, we create space for healing and growth,” Indra added.
Another important step is allowing time for self-care. Practicing self-compassion is an essential part of the recovery process. “It’s okay to feel tired or to cry. This is not a sign of weakness but a way to honor the emotions you’re experiencing,” said Indra.
Building new happiness is also a crucial element in moving forward from loss. Shifting focus to positive activities, such as exploring new hobbies or spending time with supportive friends, can be an effective way to heal.
“Solitude, when used wisely, can become a moment of reflection and growth. It’s a time to get to know yourself better, explore what brings you joy, and rearrange your life priorities,” Indra explained.
Although loss can leave deep scars, the future remains full of hope and unexpected possibilities. The world is filled with beauty waiting to be discovered.
For those struggling through loss, remember: every ending is the start of something new. “Daring to move forward is the key to finding happiness in new places,” Indra concluded.
(KRISNA)